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Sunday, June 9, 2013

The Road to Freedom


Financial freedom, that is. Aside from needing a change and wanting to see the world, my main motivation for moving to the UAE was money. I was tired of working 12 hour days and still barely scraping by to pay rent, bills, and gas. I was exhausted and still broke. Moving to the UAE gave me a much larger income, almost double what I was making working 12 hour days in the States. You would think I would be rolling in cash right now. I have made some financial decisions here that some would think were not so smart, however I like to think of them as an investment. 

My first choice was to purchase a car instead of leasing. Even the crappiest of cars here cost about 2,000 AED ($550 USD) a month to lease. You are stuck driving around in a tiny piggy bank and will never see that money again. I figured if I stay here 3 years, leasing a car will cost me 72,000 AED ($19,600 USD). Whoa. Even if I only stay the two years I committed to, leasing would cost me 48,000 AED ($13,000 USD). When you leave, you hand the car back and get nothing in return. So, I decided to purchase my car. I got a used Cadillac Escalade for an amazing price from a wonderful Lebanese family. The wife was around 60 years old and only drove it to the store and back. It had very low miles and was in great condition. I paid 35,000 AED ($9,500 USD). Here is the only catch: The bank agreed to give me a 24-month loan, so I told the man I would buy the car. When I returned to the bank to actually do the paperwork, a different loan officer was working and he informed me that because I am a teacher they would not give me a 24-month loan, only a 10-month loan. The reason for this is a number of teachers, now known as “runners”, who come to the UAE, take out loans and send all the money home to pay off debt in their home countries, and then quit their jobs and run back home, never paying the bank back. Because of these “runners”, teachers have a lot of difficulty doing business here. Anyway, because I had already committed to the man to buy his car and knew that this would still eventually work out in my favor, I went ahead and took the 10-month loan. My payment came out to be 4,280 AED ($1,165 USD) per month. The silver lining: I have a friend who loves the Escalade and has committed (inshallah his word is true), to buy the Escalade whenever I decide to leave, for 35,000 AED. Yes, that’s the same price I paid for it. 
Another financial choice I made was to have my dog shipped here. It was an expensive process and I had to get a credit card in order to make it happen. Of course then I started charging some things I shouldn’t have, and bam, found myself with a credit card bill much higher than I intended. No, it wasn’t an awful amount, but yes, I needed to start paying it off so I could get rid of the card. I have been paying it down every month. 

I am happy to say, my last payment on my car will be July 27. I have also set the goal for myself to make my final payment on the credit card on August 2 (my first day back in the UAE after my visit to the States). This will make me debt-free on my 30th birthday, which is August 9. 

I have set financial goals for the upcoming year. I do plan to do a little traveling as well as brunching and funning. My main goal is to save though. I will save a sum each month, that way whenever I do decide to return to the States I will not only be returning debt-free, but with a lump of cash. I also found out that when teachers fulfill their contract here and decide to go home, they are paid a “gratuity”, which is one month’s pay per year you complete. Meaning if I return after two years, I will get $8,000 USD when I leave, and if I stay three years, I will get around $12,000 USD. My ultimate goal when I return is to be able to have a paid-off car, and inshallah, a paid-off house (or at least a large down payment to reduce my mortgage). My vision is to set myself up for financial success for the rest of my life. Is this a lofty goal? Yes. Will I achieve my goal? I hope so. If I don’t, at least what I have done will be a step in the right direction!

Being broke has taught me more than just the importance of financial planning and budgeting. Do I always make the wisest decisions? No. Do I splurge from time to time? Yes. But during this time I have budgeted every dirham for every month. If I need a splurge, I put it in the budget and cut the fat from elsewhere. I never drop below, and never have surprises anymore. I stopped using my credit card and mostly deal in cash. Besides developing financially, being broke has actually helped me develop mentally, emotionally, and even physically. I learned to say “no” to invites. I learned to spend time at home alone, and actually learned to enjoy it. I spend time watching my favorite shows, doing research on the computer, and even reading. Believe it or not, I even started journaling.  I was unhappy with how I looked (Indian Butter Chicken and Il Forno Pizza caught up to me), and decided “Okay, I have no money, I can’t go out anywhere, I need to get my butt in the free gym and free pool at the apartment and do something about it”. I spend every day after school in the gym, and every morning there on the weekends. I am starting to like how my body looks, emotionally I am happier than I have been in ages, and I even met a friend in the gym who has a boat, which has given me another free activity that I really enjoy doing on the weekends. I know a lot of teachers here that go out every night, take trips out of town every weekend, and wine and dine like it’s their job. And good for them, every person should be able to do with their money what he or she chooses. I think I have a good balance here and would definitely prefer to take more money back to the States instead of spending it all here. 

I guess the point of this post is that through being here, I have become more insightful, more goal-oriented, and ultimately happier. I know that my blog is read by many teachers who are preparing to come here this summer to start their journey here in the Middle East. Many of the questions I get about living here are about money and finances, so I guess maybe sharing my experience might bring some insight to those looking ahead to their time here.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

On My To-Do List: Make More To-Do Lists!

My mom always used to make fun of me for making lists. I list everything. I love to-do lists, packing lists, grocery lists.. You name it, I list it. My mom would probably be laughing right now at the number of lists I have. I have about 12 post-it lists on my table next to my computer, 6 lists on the notes section of my iPhone, and most recently a giant scroll of paper I taped to my closet with lists in pretty marker colors. I am not even counting how many lists are on my desk at work. I guess other than my obsession with lists, I am a fairly normal person.. Unless you count my obsessions with calendars and countdowns. With the school year coming to an end and a trip to the States coming up, my obsessions are in full force. Not only do I have a calendar labeled with the number of days left with students, the number of days left of work, and the number of days until I fly home (8,24,36 respectively, in case you were wondering), I also had my students make a giant paper chain with a link for each day of school left. Every day during calendar time, my calendar helper gets to remove a link. We have seen our chain get smaller and smaller every day!
I guess the lists, countdowns and calendars are really just a way to occupy my excited mind. Just like how kids keep the chocolate advent calendars to countdown the days until Christmas... (Oh God, I think I just came up with a new countdown to start tonight)... Anyway, living overseas can definitely mess with your head, your emotions, your goals, and your priorities.. Maybe mine needed to be messed with..
I absolutely LOVE it here, but it is NOT home. The United States of America is my HOME! I would love to continue to travel and maybe even live abroad in another part of the world, but I know for sure that I bleed red, white and blue...
I wouldn't say I am "homesick". I hate that word.. I don't really have a "home" to be sick for anyway. But lately I have found myself missing people, places, and things that I never thought I would. Of course I have a list for these things. I have one list of things I MUST buy while I am home to bring back with me. This list consists of:
Endust
Flavored Coffee
Children's Read-Aloud Books
Sea Breeze Astringent
Hidden Valley Ranch Dressing
Swiffer WetJet Liquid Cleaner Refill
My Shoes That Didn't Make The First Cut
A New Set of Bed Sheets
Makeup
Biore Face Cleanser Cloths
Crystal Lite
Scope
Jello Instant Pudding
Redkin Shampoo and Conditioner
3M Hooks

The list gets longer each week. Everything on my list I am either unable to find here, or the price is way too much. My shampoo and conditioner here costs $30 USD per small bottle.. Eeeekk!

The closer I get to coming home, the more I think about what I miss at home and what I need to fit in while I am home. I have a list for this:
In Atlanta, I MUST treat myself to some lemon pepper wings from Three Dollar Cafe in McDonough and in Peoria, of course I will have to hit Agatucci's and hopefully Jonah's Oyster Bar.

So as I cross days off of the calendar, I can't help but get excited. My summer trip home is looking like this:
July 9-12: In Georgia
July 13-20: On a cruise to Bahamas, St. Thomas and St. Maarten..
July 22-26: In Illinois
July 27-30: Back in Georgia before flying back to Abu Dhabi

It will be a somewhat rushed trip. I can only spend a certain amount of days in the US this year so I can claim non-residency on my taxes. After August 11, I will be declared a non-resident and can spend up to 90 days a year in the States going forward. Also after I am declared a non-resident I won't owe Uncle Sam another dime! Around this same time (July 27), I will pay my final payment on my Escalade here.. Financially, this year was a break-even for me, but next year I should finally be able to not only enjoy life here a little more, but stack some savings!

As I close out my first year of teaching and living abroad, I can step back and take an honest look at how far I have come. Not just as an educator, but becoming the woman I have always wanted to be. I visited a friend this weekend who taught with me in Georgia. She lives in the Western Region, which is all desert and only small towns. We spent the day at the beach and stopped for food on the way home. While we were eating, I just paused and asked her "A year ago, did you ever imagine that you and I would be sitting, eating a meal together in the middle of the desert in the Middle East??".. Of course our answer was NO!!! It still seems surreal at times. I have always been independent, but being here this year has taught me to be more daring, step out of my comfort zone, and experience the world - good or bad! At the same time, it has put in perspective how important some people are to me, and how much I really want to settle down, depend on another person, and have a normal life! Crazy how you can feel pulled in two opposite directions at the same time! Either way, I am having a blast here and taking everything else in stride!

There are a ton of exciting things going on in my life right now, I could list them here, but I realize most people don't share my affinity for lists.